Wonderful situation

I have come to the realization I am not truly angry with her, I'm angry at the situation she has thrust me into. No remorse, absolutly no regard for anyone else involved, especially me. I am angry at her bi proxy, but not directly. As she keeps pushing, she wants me to break. I believe it is to make me out to be the bad guy, as an explanation for her actions. I am tougher than that and able to handle any thing with logical responses, and non confrontational poise. But still I feel pressed into a corner. I may bite, and snarl; however, I am not a dog waiting to pounce.
I am an intelligent human being. I hope that my intelligence will lead me through this trouble, and bring me out tempered on the other side.